💭 Marriage: A Regret or a Blessing?

✍️ By: S King Sushant

In life, we often get scared by listening to others' experiences…

"Bro, don't ever get married… you'll regret it."

I’ve heard this line so many times.

Friends, colleagues, random people — all saying the same thing: marriage is a trap.

But yesterday, something unexpected happened…

I met an old friend — someone who’s married.

And I assumed, like many others, that he must be tired of life by now.

But his story was very different.

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🚦A Lift That Lifted My Thinking

I was riding my bike when he asked for a lift.

While riding, we started talking —

“What are you up to these days?” I asked.

He smiled and said:

"I’ve been married for 4–5 years now… and I have a child too."

That surprised me —

But what shocked me more was the peace and happiness on his face — not a hint of regret.

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💍 Arranged Marriage, Beautiful Life

I asked, “Was it a love marriage or arranged?”

He replied:

"It was arranged — but bro, my life completely changed.

She’s beautiful, she takes care of the house, and most importantly — she understands me."

He added:

"I do a small government job, nothing fancy. But we’re happy.

Money isn’t everything… it’s about understanding, effort, and mutual trust."

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👫 The Real Relationship Formula

Then he said something I won’t forget:

"Marriage problems only come when couples stop trying to understand each other.

Give your wife some time, fulfill her needs, trust her — and you’ll see how peaceful life becomes."

His voice was calm, but full of meaning:

"And yes, having a good wife is important — but being a good husband matters too."

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📌 Life’s Realization

That moment changed my perspective.

Because the truth is —

Those who’ve never experienced marriage are usually the ones warning you against it.

But those who live it honestly, know that marriage isn’t a burden… it’s a new beginning.

Everyone’s journey is different.

Marriage might bring regret for some — but for others, it’s a beautiful transformation.

“Those who never die, never reach heaven” — just like that, you won’t know what marriage truly is until you live it.

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📝 Final Thought…

Marriage is a journey —

Not everyone will have the same story,

So don’t judge it based on someone else’s ending.

Sometimes, your story might become the inspiration someone else needs.

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